Food: How I Miss You, How I Wish I Could Have You Every Day. Struggles of a Broken Stomach: Gastroparesis.

Aug. 1, 2014

August is the national awareness month for Gastroparesis.

Gastroparesis from a patient’s point-of-view: I struggle with a condition called gastroparesis which causes the stomach to have an inability to empty properly, which can make eating and even drinking fluids limited most days and even impossible on bad days. I believe this condition is much more devastating, life-altering and potentially life-threatening than most people can wrap their heads’ around. Most people can’t fully understand the severity of gastroparesis. Even most doctors don’t know how to manage gastroparesis because there is no know cure, and there is only limited treatment, which can have risky side effects or may not work for some. For me, I have tried all I can.

Here is an example of a bad day for me, this day was yesterday: I spent the day in the emergency room with one of my most severe attacks yet. I went to the ER because I was unable to eat or drink much over the last four days, I was in so much pain, having nausea, a fever, was not able to move my arms or legs very well and and my blood sugars getting low from not being able to get food to stay down.

When I was checked in, the first nurse said I was burning up and said I looked like I had a fever. The ER ran labs and said my white blood cell count was up, and potassium very low. I have a condition that can cause low potassium and full body paralysis and it can be very dangerous if not treated right away. They gave me IV medication for pain and nausea but no IV fluids. After seeing my low potassium, they gave me potassium to drink but I threw it all up just minutes after drinking it. I was given a prescription for antibiotic pills to take at home for the unknown infection. The nurse came in to discharge me. I was a bit upset because I was still worried about my low potassium and my fever. She said, “What fever?” I told her I have no spleen and I have a fever. Not having a spleen, and having an infection and fever should be treated right away. I asked, “How can you guys send me home to take oral medication if I am throwing them up?” So she then took my temperature and it was 101.5. I said to her, “Can you please tell the doctor about my fever and tell her about how I threw up all my potassium just now. Ask how I am supposed to take my potassium and antibiotics by mouth at home if I can’t keep them down?” I also said I was worried if I was sent home like that, I could potentially die in my sleep. She kind of rolled her eyes and said, “You aren’t going to die. There is nothing wrong with you to show reason to be admitted.” And I said, “Clearly you have no understanding of how severe my conditions can be, and fact is this can be life-threatening if not properly treated.” Actually, normally when I am vomiting and have a fever, I am admitted right away and receive IV antibiotics and fluids until I am stable enough to keep liquids down. This time it just did not matter to them, I guess. The nurse came back and said I was still discharged, and to “deal with it at home.” I was sent home without them rechecking my low potassium, dehydrated, vomiting and with a fever of 101.5. I cried some, and my husband tried to calm me down and just told me that we should not be surprised by this because they just don’t get it, and we have more knowledge of how to take care of this anyways. In truth, he is right, he has kept me alive this long. But I knew it would be a long night and I knew I was in bad shape. By the time I got home my fever spiked to 102.5 and as the night went on, I threw up a total of 6-7 times. I even threw up all my oral medication from the entire day and everything that was sitting in my stomach…contents as old as 24-48 hours. I was very pale. I even called my GP office and the on call doctor told me I should go back to the ER. I knew I should have gone back, but every time I moved, I would throw up. Every sip I took, I would throw up. And I did not want to waste more time just to be sent home again. Since we have IV fluids at home (which I do 3 time a week) and I was so dehydrated, we ran an IV bag and that helped some. I took a fever reducer and put cold washcloths on my head and neck. After I was done throwing up, my fever slowing went down. I believe maybe all the old food sitting in my stomach for so long caused an infection and maybe getting it all out was good. But still, I am left with hardly any calories in me. My calorie intake over the last four days has been dangerously low (around 100-500 calories a day and should be around 2,000-3,000 a day), and I am sure my nutritional state is very unstable at the moment. And since I am not able to have a feeding tube or gastric pacer/stimulator, and my doctors are not willing to do TPN again at the moment (because I had one bad experience with it before and they worry about the risk of organ failure), I can run the risk of starvation. And I think we can say, we have all heard the saying, “Starving to Death.” There does come a risk when a person cannot get proper nutrition into their bodies. And it does not help that I have diabetes and mostly deal with low blood sugars and also have a metabolic/muscle condition (periodic paralysis) which causes low potassium and full body paralysis – gastroparesis only makes these conditions worse and harder to manage.

I am not sure if I ended up with this condition as a compilation from pancreatitis or from the surgery when I had my entire pancreas and part of my stomach removed and the vagus nerve was cut (the nerve that tells the stomach to work). Pancreatitis and stomach surgeries are known for the possibility of developing gastroparesis. As a result, eating solid foods and drinking liquids at times can become very challenging, or even impossible on certain days. For me, eating is not something I can do naturally like healthy people can. This natural body function has been taken from me and it is a very serious condition, and often misunderstood. I have already tried ways to try to improve my situation; but I do not tolerate the few medications available. Luckily I still have some good days, but the bad days become a fight to survive. Healthy people are able to eat and their stomach will empty and the contents will move on. But a person with gastroparesis, the contents can sit in the stomach and can take hours or days to move on (empty) depending on the severity of the condition. When that happens, there is no longer any room left in the stomach, so there is no longer any room left for more food or fluid in the stomach. As a result, the patient may try to eat or drink something, all the content has no place to go, so then it often ends up coming right back up as vomit and undigested. But many times the patient can tell when the stomach is already full and not emptying. It can become full after only a few bites of food. The symptoms can be nausea, vomiting, a feeling of fullness, pain and bloating (and often a feeling of hunger is still there because the patient is literally starving). When patients often get to that point, they may just stop eating completely. And it can be very dangerous to force someone to eat when they have severe gastroparesis and their stomach is already full. With a severe case of gastroparesis, the patient can not eat or keep fluids down because the stomach is paralyzed or broken and no longer able to function as it should. People and doctors need to understand, this condition is very different from anorexic or bulimic, because with gastroparesis it is caused by a medical problem with the stomach itself and food or liquid has an inability to physically move out of the stomach. Gastroparesis patients want to be able to eat, only their bodies do not allow it. I have heard others with gastroparesis say that their families (sometime doctors) don’t understand and try to force them to eat. But, caretakers really need to listen to what their loved ones are saying and feeling. You cannot force feed someone with gastroparesis. Force feeding can be dangerous. Luckily, my family has seen first hand what I go through and they handle it very well and have been very supportive.

Just a thought to keep in mind: please be kind to those struggling with gastroparesis. It is not an easy life. I have been a member of some support groups and just in the last year…there has been so many that have been in and out of the hospital, had multiple surgeries, and I have lost count of how many lives have been lost because of gastroparesis and the secondary complications it can cause. It is a scary reality. I believe there needs to be more awareness. Yes, some can manage a life with gastroparesis, but those with a severe case, it can cause so many secondary problems like malnutrition, can be extremely debilitating and can result in death. I try not to think about all the negatives. But on the bad days it is a reality and there is no way around it. I can feel starvation sinking in and my desperation and will to survive kicks in. Many people wonder why I just CANNOT eat what they think I should be able to eat, or what they believe to be “healthy” for me. And since everyone is different, what may be healthy for them, can actually be very risky for me; like fresh vegetables, high fiber, whole grain, meats and the list goes on. The truth is, just about everything makes me sick. Picture the way your stomach might feel when having the flu or the day after the flu. Picture how worn out and tire you feel, how much nausea you have. Now, picture that feeling every day of your life. Trying to force a few sips of soup, or wishing you could eat a full size meal 3 times a day. Forcing yourself to get things done around the house, only to end up back in bed. Yes, some days I can eat, but the days are limited and so are the amounts. So, this is my life. A very limited diet on the days I can eat when my stomach is slightly working, and then only a few sips of liquids on the bad days (which can last for days to a week at a time). So, hopefully my stomach will start working a bit better, and hopefully it will be soon! But remember, some chronic illness are invisable. You may not know what someone is suffering from, or trying to survive. Be willing to listen. Never judge what you don’t understand. And be kind to others.

4 Responses to “Food: How I Miss You, How I Wish I Could Have You Every Day. Struggles of a Broken Stomach: Gastroparesis.”

  1. Gillian Says:
    August 17th, 2014 at 4:55 am

    You and I must be twins separated at birth! I developed gastroparesis in the fall of 2012, woke up one day and started vomiting everything I ate/drank. (I have been suffering with Lupus for the last 10 years so I was used to things being bad but I digress…) I also went through multiple meds, an emptying study ect. I was planning on getting the pacer for my stomach but was put off by multiple MRSA infections, sepsis and meningitis from TPN and all the while I was melting away, losing a total of 57 pounds, only weighing 74lbs. So I ended up having a total gasterectomy and a roux en y for my intestines. This was a major surgery for me and i’ve had multiple surgeries in the last 10 years. But the glorious thing happened… I was able to eat!!! Very small amounts, but it stays in. I have early dumping which sucks but is manageable. Then 5 months later I developed hyperinsulinemia from nesidioblastosis. So I dump huge amounts of insulin and have blood sugars that go from 300 to 30 in about 45 min. Not fun, has led to passing out and seizures. Of course with my luck i have tried diet and every drug available to treat this with no luck. .. So week after next I will have my total pancreatectomy . So I found your experience to be helpful to me in that regard. I totally understand how you are feeling and how ruined your life must feel with the loss of something that everyone takes for granted, eating. I hope that you feel better and that you can get some relief.

  2. juliebernal Says:
    August 21st, 2014 at 2:50 pm

    Hi Gillian. Wow! You have been through so much. Thank you for sharing and reaching out to me. And thanks for your kindness and understanding. I hear stories like yours, like mine, and it really makes me think how incredible and complex the body truly is. Sounds like you have been through many close calls. You are a true fighter. I hope that your surgery next week is successful and you have a speedy recovery. You will be on my mind. It is not an easy surgery as I’m sure you have already heard, but it sounds like you have already seen the road of big and scary. Just remember to try to get up and moving as soon as you can. It will help in the long run. And this surgery, the recovery will bring a step forward, with two steps back, then back to a step forward. And everyone recovers at their own rate…especially with the total pancreatectomy. It’s the big one! But I hope that it will offer you some relief and a better quality of life. You are not alone in this and I am sending my good thoughts and prayers to you. Please keep me posted on everything when you are able and well enough. Hugs to you! – Julie B.

  3. TonyaClark Says:
    November 29th, 2016 at 4:53 pm

    I am so glad I found this site and your story. I am 41yr old married and mommy of 2 teenage daughters. April 2014 I had my gallbladder removed and I have felt so bad ever since. 6 mos ago was diagnosed with SOD put on antispasmodic meds they worked for a few months but have stopped. My purse is full of bottles….tums…ompeprazole…Pepcid…gasX…Myralax…Mylanta any heartburn med I have it. I just want a normal day again..I want to eat and not curl up in pain directly after. I’d like to burp and have no acid eat away at back of my like to sleep next to my husband at night without fear of vomitting or accidentally using the bathroom in my pants while sleeping. I have lost so much weight and it’s not a healthy skinny that I wanted to be. I just want my life back I am so depressed I can’t make any plans because I have no clue hour to hour how I will feel. Yes I am having a pity party today. I’ve not been able to hold any food down for 4 days now I vomit this nasty exorcist looking vomit that just goes everywhere and it’s terrible but it looks as if it’s days worth of undigested food after I vomit I feel so much better for couple hours then bam pain and nausea again. I have another dr appointment Friday Dec 2nd. I am concerned because it’s like I can feel my stomach clinching and cramping up and I van feel strong heartbeat right above my navel. This is all just crazy.
    I’ve read this site all morning and watched YouTube vids. It seems there are so many women going through this and we suffer this chronic pain alone. But today reading old comments on this site I do not feel so alone.
    All my best for you Julie I pray you stay healthy and happy. You are such an inspiration

  4. Mary Says:
    August 23rd, 2017 at 2:26 pm

    I wanted to offer some possible help for gastroparesis. Our son experienced this following a major surgery. They first diagnosed him with having an ileus, but our daughter experienced having an ileus several times following surgeries she had. While the symptoms were similar, I noticed a difference between the two of them and mentioned that I thought it was gastroparesis instead. At first we were blown off as they said it was not very common. But I was pretty confident I was right. They eventually involved a GI doctor who confirmed it was gastroparesis. They tried Reglan which scared us because of possible side effects. He was discharged with the prescription and came home. Still havi g problems with food not dumping and vomiting, my daughter and I looked up alternative treatments. She found a site that discussed the use of a TENS unit. I actually already owned one for a previous condition that required the use of one along with physical therapy totally unrelated to digestion. I decided to place two leads over his stomach and two more on his right upper quadrant at a moment when he thought he was going to throw up. Success! It prevented him frothrowing up and shortly after felt his food dump from his stomach to small intestines. We continued to use it periodically for a couple days and it got hi. Back on track. He has been fine since and it’s been about a half a year! Hope this helps!

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